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By Rob Klonyki (2008)
For any men, small vaginal size of his female partner is far more important than commonly recognized.
It is not simply that sexual intercourse feels so much better when the female vagina exerts a tight grip on the penis.
There is, beyond that, a clear metaphysical component to it. This is the case because the human mind associates certain sensations with specific perceptions.
Psychologists have conducted experimental studies and found out that the human perception of beauty is closely linked to symmetrical features.
Now, beauty itself may not be measurable. But symmetry is. And by measuring symmetry, beauty itself becomes a quality that can be determined scientifically.
There are other parameters. Youth perception, for example. It is overwhelmingly evident that men have a preference for youthful females. This is genetically encoded in every man, much more than the reverse preference would be encoded in women. Why?
The answer is anthropological. The male perception of youthfulness is a function of efficient procreation. Men may value sex for the pleasure component. But nature values it for the single purpose of procreation.
And the equation that nature makes is: youth = health = better survival chances for offspring
And just like beauty becomes a measurable quantity via symmetry, youthfulness, too, can be accounted for via measurable parameters. The obvious parameters are facial: wrinkles, muscular sagging, skin smoothness
I would call this parameter genital youthfulness. And I would not be surprised if experimental psychology were to reveal that for couples in intimate relationships, the youthfulness judgment of the male partner concerning the female partner depends on genital youthfulness more than facial youthfulness.
Why does this assumption make sense?
Because it takes into account the exceptional memory value of the orgasmic event. What a man experiences during sexual intercourse has much, much more weight than anything he undergoes all day long, or all week long, or all month long.
This also means that the youthfulness perception, or the perception of a lack of youthfulness, a man has of his intimate female partner during half an hour of sexual intercourse can easily offset the impression a man has of the youthfulness of his female partner during two weeks of living together.
This explains why men often lose sexual interest in their wives after they have given birth. The facial features of a woman change little within 12 months, even if she has given birth within this time frame.
But for her genitals, the difference is huge. During giving birth, her vaginal canal has been overstretched, and it will just not return to its previous small dimension. Not by itself, anyway.
Of course, there are options for medical intervention. Vaginal canal reduction surgery is one option. The other one is pharmacological.
Not that Western pharmaceutical multinationals would have discovered the market yet. And probably they won't get involved, because of the availability of herbal solutions that cannot be patented.
In much of Southeast Asia, women who have given birth use daun sirih and kayu rapat to cause a shrinkage of the birth canal. Actually, the according effect is so clear that both the Malay and Indonesian common names of one of these plants, kayu rapat, refers to the effect it has on the vagina.
'Kayu' is the Indonesian word for wood, and 'rapat' means tight. 'Kayu rapat' thus literally translate as tightness wood, because of its most common application, to effect vaginal tightness.
Unfortunately, other parts of the world never have had the botanical biodiversity to have traditional medicines with comparable applications. But I can predict that a world market will develop for kayu rapat and daun sirih, just as a world market has developed for condoms, or contraceptive pills, or male sexual aides such as Viagra and tongkat ali.
Furthermore, because the effects of daun sirih and kayu rapat cannot be repeated by synthetic copies, just as the taste of coffee cannot be matched by chemical flavors, it is predictable that the prices of daun sirih and kayu rapat will further rise on the world market.
This will likely create a new class society: on the one side are rich women, or the women of rich countries, who can afford kayu rapat and daun sirih, and thus enhance their capability to sexually entice their husbands. And on the other side are poor women, or women of poor countries, who, after having given birth, quite possibly numerous times, and who are made fun of, and deserted, by their husbands because of their monster holes.
Ironically, these poorer women who are further disadvantaged may well be living in some of the countries that are exporting kayu rapat and daun sirih to the rest of the world, primarily Indonesia.
The current Indonesian government may be unlikely to impose an export ban on kayu rapat and daun sirih. But if a subsequent Indonesian government should be less embracing globalization, export restrictions could be imposed, just as they had been in place for decades on gloves.
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